How Megan and Christian are teaching their kids about money
Megan and Christian are trying their best to share sound money advice with their twins. Here’s what they’re doing:
Recognising bad habits
Megan says she’s more financially conservative thanks to her bank-manager father imparting lessons at an early age. Christian, on the other hand, tends to be more frivolous with spending. “I’m the handbrake,” Megan says with a laugh. “We even each other out.” But the couple know parents influence their kids’ attitudes towards money, so their focus is not passing on any bad habits.
Showing that hard work brings reward
Christian works away – two weeks on and one week off – and his schedule sets a good example for the kids about how reward comes from sacrifice. “The kids will say, ‘Daddy, why can’t you just stay home?’ and I tell them, ‘I need to work so we can afford things.’”
Rethinking pocket money
Megan and Christian used to give the twins pocket money in cash but noticed they would spend it immediately at the canteen or on stickers. “It was easy come, easy go,” says Christian. Now pocket money goes straight into a savings account, which the kids love checking to ensure it’s growing.
What Jess Irvine wants every child to know about money
Money is exciting
“If you bring an attitude of fear or anxiety about money, kids will replicate it,” explains Jess. Let them know “money is how we get the things we want – it’s exciting to earn money, it’s exciting to spend it and it’s exciting to invest it and watch it grow.
Spend less than you earn
“I want kids to hear you say, ‘Spend less than you earn, save and invest the rest,’” says Jess, adding: “[Ensure] they know that money saved, is what you spend later on, whether it’s on a skateboard or their first car.”
It’s your money, it’s your choice
Try to bite your tongue if they blow it all on lollies or games. “Kids need to have money that is theirs so they can feel the sting of running out of money while they’re in a safe environment,” says Jess. Instead of reprimanding them, ask if they think their purchase was worth it.
Monitor your money
As a parent, Jess uses Kit, built by CommBank, the kids’ pocket money app and prepaid card. “It lets you set an allowance to be paid into their account with a linked card they can use to spend their money, and they can set savings goals,” she says. “You can also set extra jobs, such as mowing the lawn, to give them the opportunity to earn extra money.” For peace of mind, you can access it anytime and customise controls.